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Offline Keysen Johnson

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What do you do when you feel lonely....?
« on: February 18, 2020, 02:05:46 PM »
Sometimes I feel like nobody cares about me and that I worth nothing....... my kids are married or don't live with me anymore they have their own life.......... how to fight this feeling...??? thanks.........

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Re: What do you do when you feel lonely....?
« Reply #1 on: February 18, 2020, 08:07:24 PM »
Sometimes I feel like nobody cares about me and that I worth nothing....... my kids are married or don't live with me anymore they have their own life.......... how to fight this feeling...??? thanks.........

Hear you! A lot has to do with one's personality: If you are an extrovert, normally they don't have issues but for introverts who have spent most of their lives working and contributing to their family, the hard part comes when they say "thank you", if they do say that much, and just walk into the void.

I think most world philosophers had voiced the same philosophy, "know thy self". I mean really get to know yourself, it is not as easy as it sounds. Having spent your life sacrificing and giving to others, we don't naturally take the time to think deeply about our mortality and how limiting life could be, especially if we don't pause now and then to "smell the flowers".

There is much I can talk to you about but the following stories might help in this:

http://iliasleousis.blogspot.com/2017/05/episode-xl-mam-kaka-nani-and-sixteenth.html

The following is for the younger croud but the message is the same:

http://iliasleousis.blogspot.com/2015/06/episode-xxxiii-love-is-ink-wisdom-is_7.html



Stay strong.

Regards,
HumbleTrader
« Last Edit: February 18, 2020, 08:11:04 PM by Humble Trader's Fx »
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Re: What do you do when you feel lonely....?
« Reply #2 on: February 19, 2020, 01:30:26 AM »
Sometimes I feel like nobody cares about me and that I worth nothing....... my kids are married or don't live with me anymore they have their own life.......... how to fight this feeling...??? thanks.........

Don't get involved in trading forex :o Seriously, this has to be one of the most 'isolating' of all 'professions' if you can call it that - staring at charts, systems, EA's you need to be content working 'alone' which of course is very different to being lonely. Forums like this really help and can guide you through a lot of the pitfalls. Otherwise, I would structure your day to ensure you spend at least a few hours of each day in the company of others; which could simply mean going to the nearest coffee bar, walk in a busy park, anything which brings you into human contact. The trick is not to fall into the trap of staring at screens all day!

Parenthood is all-consuming for some 20 years and many feel the same 'vacuum' as you I am sure - now you have a wonderful opportunity to chase your own dreams - good luck!

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Re: What do you do when you feel lonely....?
« Reply #3 on: February 19, 2020, 05:46:43 AM »
Sometimes I feel like nobody cares about me and that I worth nothing....... my kids are married or don't live with me anymore they have their own life.......... how to fight this feeling...??? thanks.........

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Offline Nuadagas

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Re: What do you do when you feel lonely....?
« Reply #4 on: February 22, 2020, 02:43:55 PM »
I think it's really something where you can devote some time to me as well on way many levels that it can't resists here. You should have some hobby or other doings, I bet there are some social movements where you really can introduce yourself and try to take it further.

Offline Keysen Johnson

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Re: What do you do when you feel lonely....?
« Reply #5 on: March 06, 2020, 04:03:50 PM »
thanks to all for your kind words and support....... means a world to me........ i went on a vacation and i feel better now
god bless ya'll for your kind and compassionate heart!!!!!!!!!!

Offline BrandonHolly

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Re: What do you do when you feel lonely....?
« Reply #6 on: March 10, 2020, 12:54:26 PM »
Stay strong my friend. Try to do something different not trading.
Forex market is indeed a place for lonely people. So I suggest you switch to ea trading (if you are trading manually) OR just do something different (for at least couple months).
Hope you'll enjoy you time trading after that.

Offline scottynorman

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Re: What do you do when you feel lonely....?
« Reply #7 on: June 06, 2020, 05:41:08 PM »
Shit, you hate to see topics like that. Hope you are doing all right now my man.
You want to play? Let's play!
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Offline Nuadaris

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Re: What do you do when you feel lonely....?
« Reply #8 on: July 09, 2020, 12:06:11 PM »
As banal or stupid as it sounds right now, you need to make a friend. Yeah, I know it's hard, I've been dealing with these finding problems myself. But if you have someone you can call your friend, you won't feel so alone and sad. You'll have someone you can tell about your day, or share problems, or listen to your friend over a cup of coffee or a beer. Try to make at least a small effort for this task, and perhaps the result will make you happy.

 

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